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Strange conversation today with the brother of one of my coworkers. He gave an impassioned soliloquy about how humankind has veered off course and we need to get back in touch with nature. Hunt things and eat them. How people today are lost and depressed because we're not doing what our bodies think we should be doing.

Then later when speaking with a thirty year old female acquaintance he pontificated about how the whole idea of women needing to get married and have babies by thirty is a complete social construct that makes no sense.

Huh?

If you believe in human evolution as a main driver for explaining our physical needs, you must see the reason for women having children sooner rather than later, no? Wouldn't this make the idea of having children (for women) before thirty, the opposite of a social construct?

Apparently not. Paul said I should have said something but I really did not care enough to pick a fight, particularly since the 30 something unmarried woman was there and she seemed nice enough and I did not want to say anything that might put her in an awkward spot. I just thought the whole thing was totally bizarre. Do people not realize your fertility starts to decrease at age 27 and takes a significant nosedive at 35?? This is just me on my soapbox but I really wish that more time was spent educating women about the correlation between fertility and age, rather than just a bunch of stories of 40+ year old celebs successfully having twins their first go round of motherhood. Do people really think it's that simple??

Labels: Baby talk, Life, navel gazing

Comments:

Perhaps he was trying to make her feel better about being 30, unmarried and baby-less. Maybe he made her day?

# posted by  Eric : 10:45 AM

 

Maybe. It just seemed so odd to me that someone who clearly feels so strongly about humans embracing their natural instincts would go on to talk about how the desire to procreate while you're actually fertile is purely a social construct. He was actually the one who brought it up and created the awkward conversation so I'm not really sure if it was for her benefit or his...he's getting married next year so maybe he's feeling some pressure lol

# posted by  Joyce : 5:25 PM

 

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