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I keep trying to post. I have all these half-written posts about things ranging from my health to how pissed I am about the House foreclosure bailout bill. And yet, I don't know. I feel like I've forgotten how to write creatively, how to say things in such a way that I don't bore myself to tears... This design has remain unchanged for a year and a half and at this point I'm willing to blame it for my lack of inspiration. So...we'll see if I can pull myself together (I am gearing up for some hardcore Series 7 studying soon so you KNOW I'll be looking for any way to procrastinate) and make myself a layout that actually makes me want to write again. I'm considering moving towards more of a diary format as opposed to a blog, mainly because I'm hoping that will push me into the type of writing that will actually improve my writing abilities, as opposed to just posting little snippets here and there. Stay tuned! Labels: blogging
Saturday, November 24, 2007
So I forgot to post on Thanksgiving and then I was like okay, whatever, I fail. I had a pretty good run there, though. Paul and I have managed to do almost nothing for the past couple days except watch basketball and reruns of Heroes. It's been awesome. I mean that. What with work and all I haven't been able to just laze around like this in way too long. Labels: blogging, Life, The Hubs
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Um...oops? I meant to blog yesterday, I really did. I even opened up a "create post" page and everything. I just didn't have anything to say so I thought I'd wait a bit to see if the creative juices would start flowing...and then I fell asleep. Blogging at 7:50 a.m. on a Sunday morning should almost count as blogging on Saturday night shouldn't it?
Tuesday, November 06, 2007
Apparently my last post has been publishing since I wrote it sometime around midnight last night. What was I doing up at that hour considering I was back at work by 5 a.m. today? I was being an idiot. That's what. I know all two of you who read this blog (or am I back to talking to myself again?) have been patiently waiting for something of substance to come out of this whole thirty days of blogging thing - especially since if you read the NaBloPoMo website you know that it is based off a novel writing challenge. Thus one can deduce that the purpose of this exercise is to actually improve one's writing and not just to post a word or two every day for the next month. So, anyway. Let's talk about feminism, family and careers. A few months ago I had a conversation with one of my more liberal girl friends (but let's face it, I've lived my whole life on the good ol' left coast - most of my friends range from liberal to very liberal) and she pointed out to me how "unfair" it is that pregnancy and child-rearing doesn't affect the man's career the way it affects the woman's. I got where she was coming from, sure, but pointed out that it was one of those things that would likely always be unfair due to the fact that men will never carry babies and women will always be more likely to actually want to quit their jobs and take care of the little ones. This isn't to say I don't think men should have an equal share in taking care of the kids - they should - but there's a little secret that feminists haven't been let in on yet: life's not always fair and things that "should" happen aren't always the most realistic in practice. There must be a reason that I hear all the time about highly successful women (doctors, lawyers, marketing executives, etc.) who after having their children decide they don't want to work anymore. They do not feel that taking care of their children full time is a "waste" of their degrees or years of experience. Feminists may find this unbelievable, but it's absolutely true. I think I went off on a bit of a tangent there, but my main point to her was that sure it's not fair, but there's no real solution either so why dwell on it? She seemed unconvinced and even threw out the possibility of forced paternity leave to "level the playing field." Thinking back, the part of the conversation I find the most interesting is when she brought up her opinion that women should not be penalized or held back for missing time due to pregnancy when pursuing higher education. I think that it is this sort of thinking that makes most men despise feminism with a passion. This new (or maybe old? I really don't know much about the history of feminism to be honest..) breed of feminist that wants it both ways: they want men to respect them as 50/50 equals and yet they want men to give them the advantage when they need it. My friend's main argument was an understandable one: women have a limited time to get pregnant and to get education/training. Which again, I understand. It sucks having to make that choice between advancing your career and starting a family. And yes, it sucks that men don't face exactly the same consequences that women do when it comes to having a family. But there's really no "fair" way to change this - really the only way this would change is if we were able to change the biology of men and women. Which isn't gonna happen. And you don't make it "fair" by lowering standards for women when what you say you're striving for is equality! Just a little disclaimer, I'm not criticizing my friend, she made some good points and arguments...I just don't buy them. And I'm sure she feels the same way about mine! Labels: blogging, Feminist Drivel
Monday, November 05, 2007
You don't know this but every day I come home and I sit in front of this computer (after sitting in front of four screens for 10+ hours at work) and I try to come up with something to write about because God knows when I'm not actually able to blog I can think of a billion things I want to write about...and I draw a blank. And that is about where I am today. I could write about work but I don't particularly want to and honestly I don't know what I would say about it anyway? It's just work and it's not particularly interesting unless you're into that stuff... Okay, whatever, my eyeballs hurt...so...gonna go play with our new Wii now! Labels: blogging
Saturday, November 03, 2007
Um. Doh? As you can see, I've already missed Day 2. But in my defense, I was really tired. (Okay, so that's a bad defense). It felt like such a long day even though I actually got to leave the office at 2:45. All the salespeople called it quits early and one of our main systems shut down at 5:30 ET for some sort of upgrade, so Clif and I pretty much just took off after the big boss left. It's weird, as much as I do like what I do because it is challenging, some days it's just a bit much. It's not usually anything in particular that makes that day feel so much worse than every other day. It just does. And it is usually an office-wide feeling. At one point yesterday I had to turn around because I couldn't look at my four monitors anymore. My eyes were literally glazing over. For about thirty minutes I was seriously busy taking care of time sensitive issues and I could see my email box just filling up. By the time I had a moment to take a look at it, I had about thirty unread emails. Anyway, enough about work. It's the weekend, wahoo! I've already cleaned the bathroom, the closet and the tv area this morning. The fact that I'm up and working by 5:15 a.m. five days a week makes it really hard to sleep much past 7:30 a.m. the other two. Labels: blogging
Thursday, November 01, 2007
I confess. I almost forgot about this whole blogging every day thing. But, as you can see, I did not. This week hasn't been particularly busy and I'm actually starting to really feel like I have a handle on things but I'm exhausted. So glad tomorrow is Friday. Time for bed. (Yes, I realize this is a sad excuse for a post but it's all I've got right now!)
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
I decided to do something drastic about how infrequently I post nowadays so...I decided to join NaBloPoMo (National Blog Posting Month) and will be posting daily for the month of November (or trying to anyway). Bear with me as I am rusty and out of practice and have only been writing things like, "Please amend xyz" or "Please advise abc." Of course, expect a lot of pictures. Hm. Or not. It is a lot easier to tap a bit on the keyboard than it is to download a picture, resize it and then upload it to the web. Anyway, expect posting. Of what variety? That is yet to be determined. Labels: blogging
Monday, September 17, 2007
So...yes. I lied. It's been two weeks and no blogging >< Last week work went back to being a little nutty and two nights in a row I slept at 7:30. That's pm. Yeah, I'm like ninety now. You know what though? My life is really...dull. I wake up, I work, I walk home, I sit around and watch TV and contemplate the day I will begin to study for my Series 7 & 63 (tomorrow, I swear!). Then Paul comes home, we eat, play some DOTA or watch more TV, then sleep, rinse, repeat. Not very interesting to write about. Or read about, I imagine. I am probably lying again because I seem to do that a lot when it comes to what I plan to do with this website, but maybe I'll start trying to write more reviews of restaurants/things to do in SF. Paul and I are working on being all cultured and as such we have tickets to Mama Mia this Thursday. (Of course this means I will be asleep at my desk on Friday morning). That's about all we got going on here. Labels: blogging, Life, the grind
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